THINKING AHEAD

The statements below are a chance for you to check out your opinions on certain questions arising from the video. Hold the mouse over the icons next to the text to view some in-depth information about the subject of the question.

You will receive points based on your answers. More points indicate a possibility for a higher level of maturity and responsibility.
1. Having a goal to work towards is important. It’s always helpful to have a point of focus otherwise our energies could be dissipated. Setting a realistic healthy goal can encourage us to become more creative and go beyond what we think possible.


2. My decisions now can have far reaching consequences for myself and others. Just as other people’s actions affect us, our actions affect many in our surroundings,. While this should not stop us from doing what we want it would be wise to consider the consequences of our actions before rather than later.


3. Peer support groups, with realistic goals, are a good idea. Life can be difficult, the more support we can give and receive the easier it is to achieve our goals.


4. Thinking ahead regarding sexuality and sexual activity isn’t important. Go with the flow and everything gets sorted. There is an enormous pressure to become sexually active: from peers, from TV and our developing sexuality and curiosity. Many teenagers end up emotionally hurt and depressed not having set boundaries before they start exploring their sexuality.


5. In a relationship sharing our thoughts, opinions and dreams for the future is more important than having a physical relationship. The physical attraction can be used for good or bad, for kindness and selfishness. We decide. Building a friendship is far more rewarding then any sexual encounter.


6. Sexual feelings are simply an indication of a need to have sex.Sexual feelings are an opportunity to relax and enjoy the beauty of love that we feel in our heart. Most people will feel attracted to many people over their life-time, there are many wonderful signs of love and appreciation that two people can enjoy when they are not sure if they are to be ‘the one’ for each other for the rest of their lives.


7. It is selfish not to commit yourself to a sexual relationship if you really love somebody. Reserving each other’s most intimate sexuality for the one they may marry later on is heroic and praiseworthy. It takes character and true love to abstain from sex and it doesn’t necessarily mean one cannot be affectionate in other ways.