RELATIONSHIPS
In today's fast moving world with the emphasis is on pleasure and enjoyment it seems that sex is being seen as an acceptable form of recreation. Ever growing numbers of young people are being introduced to the idea that in certain circumstances sex is okay. The reality of dealing with a sexual relationship however is quite a serious matter.

'LENA'"He hasn't spoken to me since. I thought it would bring us closer but all I'm worried about now is if I'm pregnant or if he passed on some dangerous infection. I know I wasn't the first girl he was with. I feel so stupid."

Young people today have the opportunity to mature earlier than ever before. For this process to be successful however, the individual will have to accept certain responsibilities. If these responsibilities are ignored the consequences can be disastrous and occasionally tragic.  

'KAREN' "I'm pregnant but I know he won't hang around."

It is sad that so many teenagers end up with an unwanted pregnancy or with a serious infection that could prevent them from having children when in reality a lot of them were under the influence of alcohol and would never have gone that far had they been sober.  

'KEN' "I've been told not to have sex as I might spread the infection. It's not AIDS but it's quite serious, the doctor says I may have done permanent damage to myself."

Simple intimacy that doesn't lead to sex is possible for two people who are honest and take the time and effort to know what's comfortable and wise for both people. Asking, and more importantly listening to each other works wonders.